From Single To Sex Secret #4- Never Call Her For A ‘Date’…

By on August 14, 2012

From Single To Sex Secret

One important thing I want you to do is- NEVER mention the word DATE after the first time you meet her.

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Secret #4 is Never Call Her For A ‘Date’ And Watch Beautiful Women Swoon All Over You.


It’s all about being in control. When you ask her out a date you are automatically setting her up with expectations that might make the situation awkward. When a woman hears a first date we automatically think the man should pick a place, pick us up, pay, open our doors, make us laugh, keep the conversation engaging and on and on… the expectations never end! Why would you want to put that kind of pressure on yourself?

Make it just another ‘hang out’ and it will automatically become your first date without having to say it. As you build up the conversation during the first phone call, ask her what she’s doing for the rest of the week and if she doesn’t have plans tell her you’re going to a specific bar on a specific day and she should join if she’s not busy. That’s the key- invite her to something that is on YOUR playing field.

If that doesn’t work and you want to be a little more direct, tell her you were thinking of going to a specific restaurant this weekend and if she has time she should join.

Notice how you are not planning something specifically for her. You already HAD plans and you’re inviting her to join. Invite her along to one of your favorite local restaurants where you know the waiter or waitress. When you know people then it is sending her a signal that you are a cool, popular guy who has a lot of friends. She’ll take note of how nice you are to the people you know and that will make her more attracted to you instantly. If you don’t think women take note of every little thing they see then you are DEAD wrong. We may not show it, but we’re always watching for any little sign.

The key is to remain in control as long as possible before diving into her world and her interests. This is not to say you shouldn’t take interest in those things. Like I’ve said 1000 times, you should ALWAYS seem interested in what she has to say. Listen. Ask Questions. But just remember that once you step into her world then you are at risk of losing control and you may not be able to act like yourself… the self you want her to know.

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About Jessica Johnson

Allow me to introduce myself. My name is Jessica Johnson. I’m not a porn star, paid actress, or model. I’m simply a woman who knows exactly what games women play with men because I’ve seen and experienced them all… in fact, I’ve been involved in most of them in one way or another myself.


  1. elvis

    August 14, 2012 at 7:44 pm

    amazing advice

    • Jessica Johnson

      August 16, 2012 at 1:30 pm

      Thanks! I know it may seem strange to some guys to NOT ask a girl on a ‘date’ but it makes so much sense!


  2. mylon

    August 14, 2012 at 10:27 pm

    Jess I am dating a really hot babe but she doesn’t seem to be into me what so ever…I know she loves sex but she plays hard to get! I’ve tried most of your intructions but none have worked…help me please

    • Jessica Johnson

      August 16, 2012 at 1:26 pm

      Hey there! Have you had a conversation with her about whether she feels comfortable enough with you to have sex? Sometimes girls play hard to get because they are just not ready… no matter how much they like sex. If she’s too nervous to tell you how she really feels then playing hard to get could be her defense mechanism. Don’t get frustrated or pressure her. Instead, have an honest conversation about where you are both at in the relationship. This may make her feel more comfortable around you.

  3. Niel. C

    August 19, 2012 at 2:59 am

    Very true. Men are expected to take all the responsibilities for the first date. It is too much. Moreover, at the end they are also held responsible if a date does not work out. Better do something different once in a while.

    • Jessica Johnson

      August 20, 2012 at 11:09 am

      Yeah, men are being judged from the moment they pick a girl up! It’s so much better for a guy and a girl if there are no expectations at first.


  4. Jean

    August 19, 2012 at 9:13 pm

    I met my boyfriend through a common friend. He simply asked me to go for a concert with him. There was no hang-up about the first date. He made everything very casual and easy. Soon we started meeting often and got into a relationship. I think he is the smartest guy I have ever met.

    • Jessica Johnson

      August 20, 2012 at 11:12 am

      That sounds like a guy who knows what he’s doing! He made you feel super comfortable. That’s what it’s all about!


  5. Justin

    August 22, 2012 at 12:15 am

    Lovely idea! Those old “dating ideas” needs to be rewritten. Wats the point in taking all the stress? Dating should be fun and hassle-free. It is all about enjoying yourself.

  6. JASON

    August 22, 2012 at 12:17 am

    Good idea. We often never think of getting back to someone who has formed a negative impression about us. We are too afraid to try. It is a good idea.

    • Jessica Johnson

      August 23, 2012 at 5:58 pm

      Yeah, It sometimes takes creativity, but it’s worth it!


  7. D. Gordon

    August 22, 2012 at 12:18 am

    When you hang out with a girl you know her better. You can talk and share your thoughts. There will be no pressure to behave in a particular way. This is a great idea. I am going to apply this.

    • Stella

      June 14, 2013 at 1:12 pm

      You’re on top of the game. Thanks for shairng.

  8. michael

    August 27, 2012 at 8:46 pm

    Never thought about this! quite revolutionary, I must say. I avoid going for dates due to all the hassles of planning and all the hard work involved. After reading this article, I am thinking of asking the girl to do all the planning. 

  9. J.baker

    August 28, 2012 at 8:52 pm

    Nice ideas. I know a lot of man stay away from dating due to all the hard work they have to put in. they forget to enjoy the date because of the pressure they have to deal with.

  10. alexa

    August 29, 2012 at 8:04 am

    Yes, my guy once told me how nervous he gets before each date. He used to rehearse the jokes and the dialogues too. Although it seems very funny to us but to guys it is quite painful.

  11. Lyndall

    June 14, 2013 at 1:10 pm

    I’m impressed. You’ve ralely raised the bar with that.

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