3 Mistakes That Keep YOU From Backdoor Fun

By on June 16, 2012

3 Mistakes That Keep YOU From Backdoor Fun

I’ll be straight up with you: When most guys ask their girl to try anal, they do it a way that almost guarantees she says NO!

This can be a very sensitive subject for a woman. There is a chance she has tried it in the past with someone who DIDN’T know what they were doing, and if so she probably hated it. There are also those girls that feel it’s demeaning or just “dirty” and are grossed out by it.

But it doesn’t have to be this way.

Here are the 3 biggest mistakes guys make when it comes to getting their woman to try anal sex (or any wild fantasy for that matter!). If you make even one of these 3 mistakes with your girl you can just about forget about having any backdoor fun:

1.) Guys Who Are Afraid to Ask:
If you never bring up the idea of doing something wild, your girl certainly won’t!

2.) Guys Who Make Her Worried It Will Turn Out Badly:
Another one of a woman’s fears in trying backdoor sex is that it will turn out badly. She’s afraid it might hurt, or worse, get messy. Then she’ll get SUPER embarrased… and feel like SHE did something wrong.

3.) Guys Who Ask In The WRONG WAY:
Ok, so you gathered up the balls to ask your girl to try taking it in her naughty place… but that’s only half the battle. And unless you know how to bring up and “sell” her on the freaky stuff in a way that makes her comfortable and EXCITED about trying it out, she IS gonna turn it down… it’s just the way it is.

Just as you need to say and do the right things to get a woman attracted to you in the first place, you need to know exactly what to say and do in the bedroom if you want to get her to act out your wild fantasies and explore the naughty side of her sexuality.

Think about it… she doesn’t want to feel like your guinea pig while you stumble around… so it’s important when approaching a girl with something you want to try that you at least have RESEARCHED it and know how to make the experience go well if you want her to feel comfortable to “let loos e” with you!

If a guy is confident in himself and seems to know exactly how to make the experience go well, girls are MUCH more likely to say YES!

If you haven’t already, then go watch Tori’s video to
==> learn how to “UNLOCK” the secret wild side of YOUR girl!



PS – Once you discover the secrets inside this program you’ll be getting your girl to not only have anal sex… but love it, crave it, and submit to you in naughty ways you’ve never imagined. This could be just the beginning… ;)

About Jessica Johnson

Allow me to introduce myself. My name is Jessica Johnson. I’m not a porn star, paid actress, or model. I’m simply a woman who knows exactly what games women play with men because I’ve seen and experienced them all… in fact, I’ve been involved in most of them in one way or another myself.


  1. John

    July 11, 2012 at 8:40 pm

    Unless guys are confident about having anal sex, they cannot convince their partners. The guys need to take up the subject at an appropriate time and coax the girl to go for it. if done in the right way, it is fun.

  2. Kathy

    July 11, 2012 at 9:03 pm

    My boyfriend convinced me to go for it. I was scared a bit in the beginning but later on tried it. He shared a lot of information on it and that made it easier for me. I am ok with it and do not feel awkward.

    • Jessica Johnson

      July 12, 2012 at 8:35 am

      I’m glad he talked to you about it and you both agreed to try it! Sometimes the thought of the act is scarier than the act itself.


  3. Charles

    July 12, 2012 at 1:14 am

    My girlfriend outrightly denied to have anal sex. she had tried it before and did not enjoy herself. I convinced her by showing videos and sharing info. It took a lot of time but now she is a game for it. we enjoy it.

  4. Julia

    July 12, 2012 at 6:09 am

    My boyfriend was afraid to ask me for anal sex. one day while surfing the net for sex toys he raised the topic. we had a long talk and went for it. it was not bad. In fact it was good.  I wish he had asked for it before.

  5. Jonny

    July 17, 2012 at 8:30 pm

    The first time I raised the issue, I was not sure myself. I messed up the whole thing and she denied.  I had to work the other way round. Now she enjoys it and we have a rockin sex life.

  6. Anna

    July 18, 2012 at 8:14 am

    My boyfriend didn’t have the guts to ask me. can u imagine, it was me who raised the topic? He was surprised. Later on we laughed a lot on it. we enjoy anal sex frequently.

  7. Emma

    July 19, 2012 at 1:49 am

    First time, I felt bad. I donno what went wrong. He had to coax me a lot. Now, it feels ok. We even try different positions.

  8. Tim

    July 19, 2012 at 6:34 am

    I got the confidence to ask for it only after reading about it on net. I shared the info with my girlfriend. It took time to make her say yes. but she came around and now it feels great.

    • Jessica Johnson

      July 20, 2012 at 12:03 pm

      I’m so glad you did the research. Cheers to you!


  9. Douglas

    July 19, 2012 at 8:39 pm

    Getting naught y is a way of having great sex. most guys do not realize this. they try doing same thing and get bored. They should suggest new things and try them out. even girls have fantasies. So it is better to speak your mind.

  10. rogelio

    September 5, 2012 at 7:20 am

    Most girls think of anal sex as dirty. They have this idea and do not want to change it. it depends on the guy to help her to give it a try and like it. if guys are good enough they can convince their chicks and have a good time.

  11. Kimberly

    September 5, 2012 at 9:27 am

    I never thought about doing it until my guy one day raised the topic. I gave it a try thinking I will not like it but it was good. Now we have it often and he is great in it.

  12. daniel

    September 5, 2012 at 8:58 pm

    It depends on how the guy approaches the matter. Most guys do not feel comfortable and end up being messy. You need to have confidence and assure your girl that it would be nice. You should coax her to give it a try, at the least.

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