10 Love Making Tips To Use Tonight

By on March 9, 2012


10 Love Making Tips To Use Tonight

Pleasuring a woman is something I can never stress enough. If you become lazy in your love making then she’ll grow bored and find pleasure elsewhere. Below you will find tips from none other than Shawna Lenee, the 2 Girls Teach Sex expert. You may find something in this post that you’ve never considered before. Take the time to read through and learn how you can go from being mediocre to AMAZING.

Some guys make the most simple mistakes, but giving her the intense orgasm she craves is very attainable.

Trust me, she won’t be able to thank you enough! :)

And here is the BEST advice you’ll read online from Shawna Lenee…

Love Making Mistake #1: Thinking She is Climaxing When She Isn’t

You may think that your lover is having “multiples” (or even ONE you-know-what) when she is not. She may make a bunch of noises and even TELL YOU it’s happening. But is she really?

Grab a Cosmopolitan sometime and look at how many articles and comments on “faking it”. I’m not saying that YOUR GIRL is faking it EVERY TIME but… chances are there have been a few episodes of love making where she was CRAVING something other than what you were doing.

When this happens women just want it to be over and encourage you to finish. It doesn’t mean you are awful at love making; just that being a mind-blowing lover EVERY TIME takes some specialized knowledge.

If you are pleasing your woman with the “Big O” (and absolutely 100% sure of it) then congratulations! You’re one of the few guys who is ACTUALLY pleasing your woman REALLY WELL. But if you’re not, it is crucial that you learn how…

Love Making Mistake #2: Not Giving Her a Variety of Love Making Experiences

A lot of guys who are new to love making – or are used to doing it with the same woman – tend to forget when it comes to pleasing your woman she wants different KINDS of sensual EXPERIENCES.

You might think that changing love making positions a few times and varying the speed of your thrusting IS a mixing it up. But it is not.

Women thrive on emotions. Sometimes when pleasing your woman she wants to be taken, sometimes she wants it hard, and sometimes she wants to make love.

If you are NOT talking during love making and creating a strong emotional experience for her, she CAN’T be totally fulfilled. Women want and NEED strong emotional experiences in love making.

Let’s look at an example.

Women love bad boys because of the emotions that a bad boy inspires in them.

This is why that when a women cheats, it is often with a “bad boy.”

However, you don’t need to be bad boy to create bad boy emotions within her in love making. Just be a bad boy yourself by giving her a light spanking, talking dirty, and giving it to her good!

Women also love very suave, romantic types. Think of the cheesy paperback romance novels they read with Fabio on the cover. This is not a myth… women REALLY read this stuff!

Now, I’m not saying you should grow long hair, huge man boobs, and start riding a horse… but what you can do is mix up your lovemaking with some romantic sessions in which you are telling your girl how beautiful she is to you and how much you love her.

Get it?

The skinny is this:

You NEED to give your lover a variety of sexual experiences… and YOU are capable of giving her each kind… but you have to mix it up!

Love Making Mistake #3: Forgetting To Be A MAN

Ask any 100 women off of the street and 99 of them will tell you that they want a man that TAKES CONTROL.

That’s right, we want YOU to call the shots!

As long as you are respectful, your girl DOES want you to take control in the bedroom, to flip her around and switch positions without asking, and to do what YOU want!

Women are programmed to respond to strong, authoritative, confident men. It signifies that you are a protector, a leader, and a suitable mate.

Sure, it’s ok to ask her if she is enjoying something… but keep it simple. Save the talk about actual love making positions she liked for AFTER you are done.

Now don’t get me wrong – you are not making her a slave here, but rather leading with authority and masculine strength.

Once you start doing this you will be able to do many things with her in the bedroom that she earlier would not do. Many guys often think a woman is just uptight if she doesn’t want to do something… when in reality she just needs you to be a man and guide her with strength and confidence. You’ll be amazed at just how powerfully she responds!

Love Making Mistake #4: Thinking Sex Isn’t That Important To Her

If you want to know how much women LOVE sex… just think about how loudly we scream during love making! You won’t ever hear a guy screaming like that!

You might THINK that your drive is much higher than your woman’s because YOU are usually the one initiating sex with her. But…

As hard as it is to accept, recognize that if your girl doesn’t want to make love, it is NOT always because she doesn’t want to.

Unfortunately, it’s probably because you just aren’t getting her off.

Fortunately this is an easy fix, and in a moment we’ll talk about how to do it…

Love Making Mistake #5: Being Silent/Emotionless in Bed

You may think that it is “cheesy” or “creepy” to talk romantically in bed. (you may think its weird to talk at all in bed) However, women HATE silent, mechanical love making.

Why?

I’ll say it again: We women THRIVE on emotion.

Dirty talk or romantic talk are EXCELLENT ways to give your girl STRONG EMOTIONS in bed. And strong emotions = STRONG FEMALE ORGASMS.

Never think that it is solely your physical parts or motions you are making that give your girl the most pleasure. The most POWERFUL FEMALE ORGASM “BIG O” will always be triggered by our MINDS, not by our physical bodies.

Unlock her mind through dirty talk, romantic talk, and emotional talk WHILE having making love, and she will experience the most intense pleasure of her life!

Love Making Mistake #6: Trading Dinners/Flowers/etc To Get Sex From Her

Many men mistakenly think that we women aren’t interested in love making (we already discussed how this is incorrect thinking), and that they have to “trade something” with her to get her to want intimacy.

This is why you see so many guys trying to “get there” with their girl by first taking her out to a nice dinner or buying her gifts.

While doing nice things for your girl is awesome, it should NEVER be with the intention of GETTING SOME. When you have to trade something to get intimacy from your girl, realize that this is PROOF you are just not truly satisfying her in the bedroom.

When you are intimately satisfying your girl you will not have to trade ANYTHING for it, but she will often spontaneously text you sexy messages, buy YOU a small gift, or begin initiating lovemaking constantly. Just wait and see!

Love Making Mistake #7: Not Giving Her Enough “Foreplay”

If you still think of “foreplay” as the activity before love making, well then you are thinking of it WRONG!

Here’s a hint: What to please your woman… Women consider foreplay as PART of the lovemaking. NOT as a separate thing!

Here’s why:

While a man is not always capable of having a “Big O” during foreplay AND then another “Big O” during the actual lovemaking, WOMEN CAN!

Imagine if YOU could have one during foreplay… AND not lose any firmness and keep having them well into lovemaking. You’d want to spend A LOT of time in foreplay too, right?

Well your girl CAN have foreplay “O’s” AND penetration “O’s” so she DOES want to spend a lot of time in foreplay. As she should!

As a rule of thumb, spend at least the same amount of time on foreplay as lovemaking and you can always spend EVEN MORE time in foreplay. You can never get her too turned on and it will only make the lovemaking better when you are finally inside of her.

Love Making Mistake #8: Not Lasting Long Enough

This mistake is well known and very simple, but no list of mistakes in the bedroom would be complete without it. But while all guys know they need to last long… they don’t necessarily know HOW LONG that is!

Well, after talking to dozens of my girlfriends about the subject, I’ve discovered that we all think pretty much alike…

If you can last at least 20 minutes, most women will be SUPER happy with that!

Love Making Mistake #9: Mistaking Her Moody-ness For NORMAL Behavior

It’s no secret that we women can be a LOT moodier than you men =)

But if you’re in a relationship with a woman and she seems to keep getting more and more moody over time… this is often because she isn’t getting what she needs in the bedroom.

FACT.

As we talked about before… while women aren’t usually as sexually aggressive as men, we do love and NEED to make love just as much!

But here’s the thing… if you’re not giving her the “Big O”… then lovemaking does her no good!

Can you imagine if when you were “taking care of yourself” you could NEVER “get there”? You’d begin to enjoy it less and less each time. Eventually you’d get so frustrated by the inability to “finish” that it would just be easier to avoid it COMPLETELY!

Sooo…

If you can’t give her the “Big O” why WOULD she want to make love with you?

The answer:

She won’t.

If your girl is not wanting to make love with you as much as you want then this is EXACTLY what has happened for her.

In the beginning, she may have tolerated it because she was really into you. Now that you have been together for a long time and lovemaking isn’t satisfying for her, it is more fulfilling for her to take care of HERSELF when you’re not around. This leads to only being with you on special occasions… or when she feels obligated (like if a guy bought her a fancy dinner or some sort of gift.)

If you recognize any of these signs, it’s time to step up your game NOW before the drought gets even worse.

And when you do, you’ll discover that when you are completely rocking her world in bed, not only is she in a better mood on a day-to-day basis… but SHE’LL start initiating making love with YOU!

A close friend of mine who is some what of a love-making expert himself told me something that I didnt’ believe at the time… but I now KNOW to be 100% true:

IF YOU ARE GIVING HER THE BEST OF HER LIFE, SHE WON’T CARE IF YOU ARE HOMELESS LIVING IN A CARDBOARD BOX… AS LONG AS YOU CAN MAKE LOVE IN IT!

And hey, I’ll admit it… if a man can give it to me like that, this is probably true =)

If your girlfriend or wife is often starting arguments, not wanting intimacy, or acting “distant” in some way, it’s time to stop blaming her. Re-examine your ability because the real culprit is inadequate love making pleasure.

Love Making Mistake #10: Not Getting Help

Top performers in any aspect of life realize that MASTERY is a journey, not a destination. Top athletes don’t all-of-a-sudden stop practicing. CEOs don’t suddenly neglect their businesses and expect it to keep growing. And guess what… lovemaking is no different.

To be an amazing lover you can’t ever be blinded by arrogance. Never think that you know EVERYTHING. You may know A LOT but there are ALWAYS new tricks or tips to get you to the next level.

If you’re serious about getting this part of your life together… and joining the 1% of all men who can REALLY rock a woman’s world in the bedroom… I’d like to invite you to check out my new groundbreaking DVD series, 2 Girls Teach Sex.

In it, you’ll discover DOZENS of secrets on how to get your woman turned on BEFORE you make love, foreplay tricks that make her BEG to have you inside of her, the little-known positions that GUARANTEE she “gets there”, how to get your girl to start initiating intimacy with you, how to give her “multiples”… and much, much more!

Best of all, you can try it RISK-FREE. Get it out there, watch the videos, and try out the techniques. If your girl isn’t SCREAMING with pleasure and begging you to make love to her at all times of the day, simply pack them up and return them for a full refund, no questions asked.

Of course, I ’d be “crazy” to make an offer like that if we were at all worried about that happening. In fact, I’ll bet that once you get these DVDs out there and see how well these techniques work, we wouldn’t be able to pry them out of your hands with a crowbar!

I’m this confident because I know from experience that these are the REAL secrets women want you to know =)

Click on the link below, and start using them for yourself and for her female orgasm.

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XOXO,

Jessica

About Jessica Johnson

Allow me to introduce myself. My name is Jessica Johnson. I’m not a porn star, paid actress, or model. I’m simply a woman who knows exactly what games women play with men because I’ve seen and experienced them all… in fact, I’ve been involved in most of them in one way or another myself.

22 Comments

  1. NathanG

    July 11, 2012 at 10:54 am

    Great article…and that stuff about Fabio made me laugh out loud!!

    I have purchased the 2GTS system and I highly recommend it to those of you who would like to attract more and/or hotter females in your life.

    • Jessica Johnson

      July 13, 2012 at 12:08 pm

      I’ve always had a lot of good feedback on 2GTS. Check out my book in a few weeks for even more tips!

      XOXO,
      Jessica

  2. Robert

    July 12, 2012 at 7:43 am

    I never knew so much about faking until I read it in some magazine. I had a long chat with my girl and now she tells me what she likes me to do. Our love making has improved a lot and we are satisfied with that.

    • Jessica Johnson

      July 12, 2012 at 8:22 am

      That’s awesome, Robert! You just improved on the 2 key things in any relationship- better sex AND communication!

      XOXO,
      Jessica

  3. Adam

    July 12, 2012 at 8:52 pm

    Yes, being open about your fantasies and feelings helps a lot. Guys are often clueless about what their partners want. By talking and sharing they can know what exactly they can do to please their partners. Seems so simple, yet so few people do it…

    • Jessica Johnson

      July 13, 2012 at 11:53 am

      You’re so right! It’s amazing to me that having great sex is so easy, yet so many people just don’t know what to do. That’s where I come in…

      XOXO,
      Jessica

  4. Jonathon

    July 13, 2012 at 12:49 am

    Women need to be told that they are beautiful. They need to talk about their feelings while making love. As a guy, you can please her if you let her know how much you love her and want to be with her. Give her the care and love she seeks and in return your love life will soar.

    • Jessica Johnson

      July 13, 2012 at 11:56 am

      I loved that you used the word beautiful and not ‘hot’. Girls feels so cherished when you give them genuine compliments. Nice work!

      XOXO,
      Jessica

  5. Danny

    July 13, 2012 at 8:35 am

    Girls need to talk during sex too. yes, they need to know that you love her and want her and that you are enjoying. Guys who remain silent in bed simply do not understand what their girls want. They should brush up their knowledge about sex and woman.

  6. Roy

    July 13, 2012 at 9:59 am

    I have seen that my girlfriend likes it the best when I take the lead. She submits to the demands and we have good sex. now I can figure out why. Girls need to be directed and they love being guided. Thats the way with them.

    • Jessica Johnson

      July 13, 2012 at 11:41 am

      Yup! As long as she is comfortable being leaded. It’s good to have a conversation about this.

      XOXO,
      Jessica

  7. Cary

    July 19, 2012 at 8:28 am

    I love it when my man takes the shots. he knows the best and I let it be. I think most women feel this way. but guys do not know this.

    • Jessica Johnson

      July 20, 2012 at 12:02 pm

      I would agree that most women like a man who can take charge. It’s all about confidence. We are wired to be attracted to it!

      XOXO,
      Jessica

  8. Devin

    July 20, 2012 at 6:50 am

    My girlfriend never reached climax and faked it. one day while fightin she spilled it. I was very angry but later on read some mags and improved my acts. She is happy now and does not fake them.

  9. blacky

    July 20, 2012 at 7:55 am

    When it comes to sex, girls and boys have the same drive. girls do not say much, that’s it. they also want it and sometimes too badly. Guys must realize this and get their acts right.

  10. Pedro

    July 20, 2012 at 8:47 am

    U mean to say that I should talk a lot and that too dirty? Never thought of it. will give it a try. I think it will work as most of your tips are great.

    • Jessica Johnson

      July 20, 2012 at 11:42 am

      I think you should talk as dirty as she likes it! Some girls do, some girls don’t, it’s all about preference. Talk to her about it!

      XOXO,
      Jessica

  11. barbara

    July 20, 2012 at 9:12 am

    I hate dumb men! Why don’t they speak while havin it? most girls love it more when their guys speak up while making love. but men are so dumb that do not understand.

    • Jessica Johnson

      August 16, 2012 at 1:32 pm

      I think girls do like it when a guys speaks up every now and again! But different things work for different people. It’s good to mix it up!

      XOXO,
      Jessica

  12. barbara

    July 20, 2012 at 9:12 am

    I hate dumb men! Why don’t they speak while havin it? most girls love it more when their guys speak up while making love. but men are so dumb that do not understand. i simply hate such men.

    • Jessica Johnson

      July 20, 2012 at 11:40 am

      Yes, but some might not like it. It’s always important to communicate these things. Don’t be afraid to tell your man how you like it! He’ll never know unless you tell him.

      XOXO,
      Jessica

  13. Burton

    July 20, 2012 at 10:12 am

    Foreplay is not separate. To have great sex, you must mix it with foreplay. I mean, do it before having sex and also after it. girls love it. take my word, try it and you will end up feeling good. 

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